Couples Counseling

Relationship advice and ‘rules for fair fighting’ rarely stand up to the strong emotions that emerge in some couple relationships. I work with relationships to rediscover that place where you each can feel connected and fully acceptable to one another.  

I am an EFT certified therapist trained by ICEEFT (International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy) and continue with ongoing training and supervision by this institution. As an Emotionally Focused Therapist, I provide collaboration and insight in working with you to identify the repeated negative patterns that often destroy relationships.  I help individuals to transform the negative behaviors of contempt, blaming and stonewalling that go with difficult emotions such as loneliness, hurt and fear.  I help you to find a way to replace those negative behaviors with healthy and productive communication patterns that bring the tenderness and comfort you long for. Together in couples counseling we can rediscover the connection, love, and caring that initially brought you together.